Take It or Leave It: Emily Post Formal Invitation Etiquette
If you’re going the route of mailed invitations, whether it be for a wedding or gala, you (like us) have a respect for what some might call traditional etiquette. And no one knows the rules on etiquette quite like Emily Post. She is the GOAT when it comes to what guests might expect or consider the standard. But times are a changin! And we at CWD always believe in adding a little flair or something unique to your event; it’s usually in those details that our clients’ personalities shine and stationery truly becomes custom. So when is it okay to stray from what Emily Post says?
Bottom line: there is no set list of what is or isn’t allowed when it comes to formal invitation stationery. But here are a few guidelines from the Emily Post playbook, and a few examples how Courtney Winet Design has bent the rules a bit…
INVITATION WORDING
Emily Post Says…
THIS is how you write out a formal (wedding) invitation wording.
ADDRESSING YOUR INVITATIONS
Emily Post Says…
THIS is where Emily says technically you should hand address all invitations (even when inviting hundreds of guests).
WEDDING ATTIRE
Emily Post says…
THIS one Emily Post says the consideration of guests is what’s important, and ultimately making it easy for them to determine whatever the dress code may be.
One final reminder: guests will take their cue for your event from the level of formality of the invitation. So whichever impression you want to give, Courtney Winet Design is ready to help guide and work with you to create the invitation suite of your dreams!